我的爱要自己掌握用英语怎么说

MY LOVE SHOULD BE CONTROLED BY MYSELF

My love should be controlled in my hand.

I will be in charge of my own love.

i am the leader of my own love!
i am the master of my own love!
都可以的，其实一个句子对应的翻译是很多的，根据语境来选择合适的翻译就行呢！