帮翻译『是现实太残忍，还是我们太认真』成英文！

Reality too cruel ?
Or too serious we are ? 我是英语专业大四学生，个人觉得这样翻译比较好。1楼的翻译也还行，2楼的估计是直接用google翻译的，整句话错误。个人意见，仅供参考！

Is it the reality too cruel (or ruthless), or if we are too serious?

Is the reality or too cruel too seriously

Is reality too cruel or are we too serious?