我男友最近压力很大，想自己静静

you should understand that he
is under great pressure which
probably are from society and
work unit.whatever he was
under, you should understan
that you should not ask more
than he could give you or
beyond his power such as
a big house and a big car
and so on. you should understand
that marriage is just a form
that need love most, if you
really love, just a renting
house is OK, if you really
love him, don't give him
too much pressure, or he
will blame on you.

男人到这个时候压力都是最大的，所以你尽量不要给他施加压力，比如说结婚想要他买什么样的房子，想要赚多少的钱等等。，尽量多给他鼓励

此时是你最该给他鼓励的时候。千万不要给他压力。你也不要难受，，爱他就给他时间，让心爱的人稍放松一下，对自己和他人都是最好的缓冲剂......

和他做一次，从身心上彻底给他一种鼓励和安慰。