have a joke with sb与play a jok on sb的区别

have a joke with sb. 和某人在一起讲笑话，讲笑话给某人听
play a joke on sb. 戏弄某人；对…恶作剧；开…的玩笑

examples：
Having a joke with Lily is a good way to spend the boring time.

和莉莉在一起讲笑话是一种很好的打发无聊时间的方式。

Life is not a trap the God uses to play a joke on you.
生命不是上帝用于捉弄你的错误的陷阱。

前者是与某人开玩笑
play a trick on sb是捉弄某人。恶作剧。