你需要吃亏，才能想到我（英文怎么说）跪求解决

两种不同语气的：
Only when you lose that you can think of me.
你只有吃亏了才会想到我

You need to lose. Then you will think of me.
你需要吃亏，这样你就会想到我。

only when you are fooled and get into
trouble do you think of me.

You remember me only when you encountered loses.