中文柔中带钢 ,英文怎样说

There is strength as well as grace in her dancing.
她的舞蹈柔中有刚。
He is one of those men who have an iron hand in a velvet glove.
他是一个外柔内刚的人。
I believe in the iron hand in the velvet glove-that is, severity accompanied by politeness.
我信奉外柔内刚，那就是既严厉又温和。
He and I are just discussing whether I have an iron fist in a velvet glove.
我和他正在讨论我是否采用外柔内刚的手段。
The boss always appears kind and sympathetic but in fact rules with an iron fist in a velvet glove.
老板总是似乎很仁慈和富有同情心，但实际上他是外柔内刚。
"Bernard," says Lady Darmouth, "this kind lady and I are just discussing whether I have an iron hand in a velvet glove. What do you think?"
“伯纳德，”达特茅斯夫人说：“这位仁慈的夫人和我正在讨论我是否外柔内刚。你的看法呢？”
Soft and fair goes far.
柔能克刚

be gentle but pithy