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I have a lot of married friends so I've known plenty of people who have been in a similar situation. IMHO, too many people have unrealistic expectations. They expect bombs and fireworks to go off every day and that's not how life is. Once you've been together for a long time, especially if you are married or living together, things die down. You don't get as excited anymore when you hear his voice, you don't want to have sex as often, you need some space from him, you may even find him less attractive, etc. That's normal. I don't know what the problem is because you provided little information but from what I've seen of friends who are in that situation, sometimes the problem is their unrealistic expectations. They also become busy with the routines in life...work and raising their children. They don't spend much time alone together and after a while, it becomes a marriage of convenience. My suggestion is to go for martial counseling and if that d