请教；“ 原来爱你和放弃一样的不容易 ”这句话用英语怎么说？感谢！

Loving you turn out to be as difficult as giving you up.

Actually, neither loveing you nor giving you up is so easy.

no matter love or abandon is not an easy thing

whether love or abandon is not easy

it's not easy to love you, nor to abandon you neither

还有个比较EG的说法是：
To love or not to love, it's a question