问一个有些怪异的问题

如过真的喜欢他,应该包容他的缺点,毕竟每个人都是有很多缺点的.不在乎他是否完美,而作为他女友应该使他完美~

Well, it's hard to tell, really.
For me, I won't start a relationship without "analysing" his negative points. So I'll "tolerate" them, because I should have known them pretty clearly. If possible, I'll still wish he could make some improvement, but I won't force him to. And I need an "agreement" from him. I mean the ways of thinking between us should not be too different. What I request from him should also be done by myself.
Life or relationship is some kind of a "compromise", I guess.
So what you said can both happen in real life. It depends on what kinds of a girl you've found.

这样看是什么样的缺点。这些缺点对于我个人来说是否能容忍，还要看对方是否愿意为我而改变，是否愿意改掉我不能忍受的缺点，如果对方做不到这些，那我还是宁愿分手。

爱一个人的真谛：
爱她（他）是要包容他的缺点，但不是要他（她）为你改掉所有的缺点。
爱她（他）是要让她完完全全的做自己，而不是让他（她）依照你自己的思维方式来生活。否则你看到的只是在他（她）身上找到的自己的影子而已！！~
人无完人，花无完花，自古以来就是这样的生活真谛。
两个人在一起，需要互相包容，互相理解。看到了对