这句名言如何翻译成英文？

There is one thing more important than knowing self; it is governing self. There is one thing better than crushing impulse, it is using impulse. 有一件事比自知更重要，即自制；有一件事比压制冲动更好，即利用冲动。 ---H.R.Haweis 哈维斯

there is somthing more important than self-awareness,which is self-restriction;there is somthing better than impluse,that is the utilization of impulse
翻的不好，你最好去找原文，如果有的话

There is one thing more important than the insight that the self-made; there is one thing better than the repressed impulses, namely, the use of impulse.

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