it is better to give than to receive

there is an old saying goes, Roses given, fragrance in hand. it is better to give than to receive. recently i watched a move called The Shawshank Redemption, it talks about Andy, the main actor, who has been arrested innocently. but he doesn't lose himself in the prison. he helps the police in order to give his friends cool beers in hot summer days, but he doesn't drink. he wirtes a letter once a week to government for building a new library, and he helps people in the prison to get the diploma of high school. eventually, even he doesn't gain the right jugement, what he gains is freedom. another instance is Oskar Schindler, a vain, glorious and greedy German businessman, who becomes unlikely humanitarian amid the barbaric Nazi reign when he feels compelled to turn his factory into a refuge for Jews. he give the safe and freedom to the jews, what he gains is 1100 jews'respects and high reputation. we can see thats great people who gived people so much selflessly. ther