帮翻译成英语：人这辈子总要动真格的爱上一个人，一旦爱上了，第一步是失去自己，第二步则是失去自己的爱

The total in this life who really wants to fall in love with a person, once fell in love with the first step is to lose yourself, the second step is the loss of his love

Person once in love ,first lost himself,next may kiss good-bye to his love,although one need fall in love earnestly!

This always asks person to move reality having fallen in love with one people, once on love in the lifetime , the first step is to lose self , second steps are to be to lose self love