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ake a deep breath before you act. Give your child a chance to work things out. "Even a crying infant eventually learns to fall asleep without being held. When your homesick freshman calls in tears, listen and give her a chance to work things out," Coburn says.

Help your child learn to negotiate conflicts. "Encouraging your toddler to use words rather than grab her shovel back from another child in the sandbox may be the first lesson in the art of conflict resolution. When a freshman is learning to live with a stranger, a gentle reminder of these skills may be just what is needed."

Help your child learn to cope with disappointment. Empathize with your grade school age child when he isn't invited to a birthday party or is the last one picked for the kickball team. "Instead of trying to 'fix it,'" says Coburn, "help him to move on. The high school star athlete may become a bench warmer in college, and the high school