女生之间怎么那么难处

怎么说呢~~~女生天生就是个小心眼~~~就算是在大方得体的女生，也有这样的毛病，也许是社会原因吧，所以女生对发生在身边的小事总是很斤斤计较，不象男生~~~这也很正常~~~烦也没有必要了，一般情况下少想点，就没事了，只要女生心眼不坏的话，就算她再怎么样，也不至于去害你吧~~~应该可以做普通朋友的~~

that was because girls like to complain,critizise,and also spread of rumors......
they are problem maker.....
they like to speak out of problem rather than offer solution....
they like to think much, and make a siimple situation become complex....
they like noise..
but,
they will feel regret more ofen and apologize...
they are tend to restore balance in the conversation....
they seldom fight until no turning point.....

while,
for boys,
if there are no problem exist, boys are ok with their friends, but once they fight with each other, it means that their relationship is really game over...
they often take seriously in the relationship....

ni 都是这样拉．．就算在好的朋友也会为了一些什么事而争吵的．．只要你能看的开些就无所谓拉．．别人爱怎么样那是她们是事．．你没有必要管那么多．．何必让自己那么累呢？？不是吗？／只要天天开心就好了．．现实点吧＃＠＃＠

心生之间的矛盾其