Punishment is never the answer

来源:百度知道 编辑:UC知道 时间:2024/05/18 05:13:38
Punishment is never the answer.Why?Punishment is a lazy way for parents to tezch their kids.In fact, it's not teaching at all.Teaching means talkingand discussing.Punishment tells a person that he/she did something wrong -but it doesn't teach how to do it righ net time or tell why it was wrong. Discussing what happened and why, and talking about how to do it differently in the future is a much better way.
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惩罚从来就不是教育孩子的方法。为什么呢?因为对父母来说,惩罚是用一种懒惰的方法来教育孩子。事实上,用惩罚什么也教不到。“教”意味着丰富而有意义的讨论。惩罚只能说明一个人做错了什么,而不能教会人们如何能在下一次做对,也不能告诉人们为什么这样做是错的。讨论发生了什么并探讨其原因,以及探讨将来应该怎样用不同的方法去做才是一种更好的办法。