UC知道帮忙翻译一下这篇文章（4）谢谢！
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#8. You pick the wrong person because you don't put everything on the table.
Anything that bothers you about the relationship must be brought up for discussion. Bringing up the uncomfortable stuff is the only way to evaluate how well the two of you communicate, negotiate, and work together. Over the course of a lifetime, difficulties will inevitably arise. You need to know now, before making a commitment: Can you resolve your differences and find compromises that work for both of you? Never be afraid to let the person know what bothers you. This is also a way for you to test how vulnerable you can be with this person. If you can't be vulnerable, then you can't be intimate. The two go hand in hand.
#9. You pick the wrong person because you use the relationship to escape from personal problems and unhappiness.
If you are unhappy and single, you'll probably be unhappy and married, too. Marriage does not fix personal, psychological and emotional problems. I
Anything that bothers you about the relationship must be brought up for discussion. Bringing up the uncomfortable stuff is the only way to evaluate how well the two of you communicate, negotiate, and work together. Over the course of a lifetime, difficulties will inevitably arise. You need to know now, before making a commitment: Can you resolve your differences and find compromises that work for both of you? Never be afraid to let the person know what bothers you. This is also a way for you to test how vulnerable you can be with this person. If you can't be vulnerable, then you can't be intimate. The two go hand in hand.
#9. You pick the wrong person because you use the relationship to escape from personal problems and unhappiness.
If you are unhappy and single, you'll probably be unhappy and married, too. Marriage does not fix personal, psychological and emotional problems. I
# 8.你挑错人，因为你不把一切都摆在桌面上。
凡是困扰你讲述关系必须拿出来讨论。带来了不舒服的东西是唯一的途径，以评估如何好，你们两个有沟通，洽谈，携手合作。以上课程的一生，困难将不可避免地出现。你要知道，现在才作出一项承诺：您能为您解决分歧和寻求妥协的工作，为你们两位？从来没有怕让某人知道什么困扰你。这也是一个方法让你来测试如何脆弱，你可以与这个人。如果你不能成为脆弱的，那么你就不能很亲切。两个齐头并进。
＃ 9 。你挑错人，因为你使用的关系，以逃避个人问题和不愉快。
如果你不满意和单一的，你可能不高兴，并结婚，过。婚姻不修理个人，心理和情绪问题。如果有的话，婚礼将加剧这些问题。如果你不是很乐意与你和你的生活，承担责任，以修理，而现在你是单身。你会感觉好多了，和你的配偶将来将谢谢。
＃ 10 。你挑错人，因为他/她是参与一个三角形。
以"三角"是指一个人在感情上依赖于某人或其他什么东西，而试图发展另一段感情。一个人不被分割出去，从他或她的父母是典型的三角。人们也可以进行三角的东西，而且，如工作，毒品，互联网，文娱活动，体育活动或金钱。小心你和你的伙伴都是免费的三角形。人被夹在三角不能完全深有感触地提供给你们。你不会是他们的头号优先。这也没有什么依据结婚。
"生活就是不知道我们呼吸，它的关于时刻考虑我们窒息" ！
如果你发现以上几点有益的，你可能有兴趣在检查出这个更具体的版本。希望你们都找到你的先生/女士。正确的。