UC知道Why is my relation with my parents so bad?
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is and they didn't know how to express the love to others
especially to their children.They ruined my life and tore
up my most beautiful feeling while I was young.I lived
with the din of quarrels and curses through my childhoo.
I hated them.but so many people didn't understand me, saying
It's my fault.Don't tell me that I should do duty to take
care of them.I have no heart because it seemed they don't
deserve being treated like that.For most part of my life,
I've undergone an unhappy life they brought.I was treated
like dirt.What they did was very selfish and imprevious
to reasons.The net friends always criticize me as ungratful
being.but I don't agree with them. I have so many reasons
to write them off.My question is whose fault the hell it
is.Shall I distance from them rather than bear their
wrongdoing.
There is a
Silkrug，
I feel for you, maybe, just maybe that your mom and dad didn't treat you that well or they have high expections on you while you were a kid,they always push you to do things out of some sort of kindness and seldom consider what you think and need most. I don't know if all these caused by the generation gap between you and your parents. and it's kinda hard to judge whose fault this is solely based on your descriptions. but obviously there are misunderstandings and unhappinesses in your life. but you and your parents live in different ages, and have different social and eduational backgrouds. so you guys have different ideas on life,love, marriage, value and lot of other things. so right now. I guess the best way to get it resolved is not to argue with them but to have a heart to heart talk with them.I mean you gotta ask your parents! you should let them know all your feelings. and you will know everything that bothering you now.
best regards