Why is relation with my parents so bad?

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My parents are from revolutionary era.They are all over eighty.
They didn't know what the love was and didn't know how to
express the love to others,or even to their children.They only
knew how to fight each other. I only remember the quarrel and
scolding when I first knew things.They treated their children
like me like subordinate and never looked them squarely.I am
still angry when I recall how they kicked me out of theirs and
turned a deaf ear when I asked for help.I despite them and hate
them because they still feel good all the time.Now they are old.
They need me to take care of them.But I just don't have heart
to do so because I think they don't deserve being treated like
this.There is saying that you sow the beans and you get beans.
you sow nothing and you get nothing.Why can this be applied to
evil people and not to my parents? I should do my duty just becase
they born me? They say that I am

Wandering the same degradation.I and grandma relation are not good.I think she is an evil,She often tells a lie and slanders me.I hate her very much.She always creates something out of nothing.She always is engaged in entire home getting a pestilential atmosphere.She is over eighty .I don't understand what benefit this has to her,why she aways do that ,tells a lie and slanders everybody in my famliy.She always uses tear to seek somebody's sympathy~`~~`I try my best to revere her, but she gives him an inch and he'll take an ell~~

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