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心胸宽广,对别人多加理解和包容。一个新时代的大学生应海纳百川,因为每个人都有优点也有缺点,彼此不相了解的两个人有可能由于距离产生的“美”而相互欣赏,但近距离地接触后,可能就会发现彼此的很多缺点,所以这时候我们就要学会,既能欣赏并学习他的优点也能理解和包容他的缺点。平时对一些生活中出现的鸡毛蒜皮的纠纷,不要太耿耿于怀,该忘的忘,该原谅的原谅,该和解的和解,不要太放在心上。
真诚地对待他人。俗话说:“种瓜得瓜,种豆得豆“。只有播种真诚,展现真实的自我,才有希望收获别人的真诚。因为人们无意识中在遵守“人际关系互惠“原则,你袒露真诚的程度,会得到相应的回报。有的人害怕自己的缺点被别人看到会影响自己在别人心目中的形象。心理学研究表明:”人们并不太喜欢一个各方面都十分完美的人,而恰恰是一个各方面都表现优秀而又有一些小小的缺点的人最受欢迎。所以你不用太在意自己的缺点,对自己要有足够的信心
发自内心地赞美他人。学会欣赏,赞美他人,每天至少说一句让人感觉舒服的话,比如:“你太棒了!”“你这个发型很好看!”这种赞美的话语会给被赞扬者带来快乐,引起积极的情绪反应。并且情绪具有传染性,即也会传染给周围的人,给周围所有人带来快乐。“快乐”,则能消融人际关系的僵局,使寝室关系变得融洽。
建立良好的宿舍人际关系是每个大学生的必修课,在宿舍人际交往中没有万全之策。室友之间的摩擦在所难免,夫妻之间也会有小打小闹的呢。天天在一起生活,难免有暴露缺点的时候。这些小细节完全是可以忽略的。若在保持自身人格完整的同时,关心他人的需要,与别人沟通。平等真诚地对待朋友,将心比心,培养自己的角色互换心理,就能消除隔阂,获得真正的友谊。建立起和谐的大学生宿舍人际关系。忍一时风平浪静,退一步海阔天空,在当今社会是比较完美的做人宝典。

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